I was taught at a very young age to say no to drugs. And I have succeeded, thus far. However, I can't remember when I was taught to say no to the "shoulds". And if it did come up, I never fully learned how to tame them. Sometimes they won't leave me alone. "You should dress this way," "You should have this number of friends," "Your house should be spotless and way more updated"... and this is just the beginning of the list in my mind. They drag me down and make me question myself endlessly about why things aren't "as they should be." I don't think I'm the only one who struggles with the "shoulds". If you struggle with the "shoulds", you should tell me. Just Kidding!
My dad reminded me today of the one "should" that I really should pay attention to. And that is, that we should be like Christ. Now this is a tall order for me, but so is trying to put together an outfit that is stylish, or reach out to make more friends becuase what if they don't like me, or trying to keep my house just from falling apart (let alone spotless).
The bible tells me "Seek first the kingdom of God and His rightousness and all these things shall be added to you as well." (Matthew 6:33) So, doesn't it just make sense, that I should focus on this and all these other "shoulds" might fall into place?
Something I am still trying to learn.
Well, I really would love to know what "shoulds" you struggle with. May you have the strength to say NO to them (and to drugs).
Sorry, I know I "should" have posted some pictures today. But, no pictures...just thoughts :-)
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